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So I think “why do you want to have sex?” is a good question to ask your partner and yourself. When you treat it like a foregone conclusion then it’s harder to know exactly what you want out of sex. When you think “I want it for the usual reasons” it’s too easy to have what you assume is the usual sex—instead of your sex.
Holly Pervocracy, “Why have sex?”
I’d like to add that everyone’s reasons for having sex are OK. Having sex because you enjoy the power of giving your partner orgasms is OK. Having sex because it feels good is OK. Having sex because you feel safe when you do it is OK. Every reason is valid.
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